How NOT to Love on a Writer

Cynthia Herron Writing 6 Comments

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In my recent post 10 Ways to Love on a Writer I offered ways we could support literary creatives.

Today’s post is a tongue-in-cheek opposite filled with some additional truths (in a lighthearted manner).

HOW TO SCORE BROWNIE POINTS:

  • Phone calls promising “This will only take five minutes…” (And of course, it’s more like 50.)

 

  • Well-meaning remarks such as “Must be nice not having a schedule.” Huh?

 

  • Additional head-scratchers: “How much do you make?” AND “Wow! Can I see your agency contract?”  My answers: “Would you mind sharing what your salary is?” and “No, you may not. My agency contract is a confidential, legally binding document. If I show it to you, my face will turn blue and my toes will fall off.”

 

  • Ask what writers write. And then diss the genre. Unabashedly.

 

  •  Inform your writer friends that you, too, are thinking about writing “a little book.” PLEASE do it already.

 

  •  Use incorrect grammar. (Don’t be surprised if you hear our teeth grate.)

 

  •  Drop in for an impromptu visit during our work hours. And be sure and bring your sick children.

 

  • Attempt a guilt trip when we politely say “No thank you. I’ll have to pass.” Guilt doesn’t work with me. Chocolate. Try chocolate.

 

  • Deliver negativity and pass out the complaints. Nothing spells r-u-n faster than melodramatic mindsets. Legitimate concerns are one thing; contrived “poor me’s” and dissing not so much.

 

  • Show us your handwritten manuscript. All 500 pages. And then ask, “Will you help me publish it?” Really?? A) I’m not a publishing house. B) Please learn to type. C) Levity is always appreciated. Thank you.

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What else would you add to this list?

Have you ever faced an awkward situation in the workplace?

How did you handle it?

Additional posts you might like:

On This Business (And Busyness of Writing)

How to Stay Motivated Despite Chronic Complainers

How to Defy Our Dream-Crushers

Do Writers Need Cheerleaders?

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Blessings Always,

Comments 6

  1. Jessica R. Patch

    I got a message the other day from someone I have not spoken to in at least 20 years with a hey good job on writing your book. I’m thinking of writing a novel. Who’s looking for manuscripts.

    For. The. Love.

    lol Bad grammar doesn’t drive me too crazy. It helps me when I’m writing characters. 😉

    I would so toilet paper a desk.

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  2. Loree Huebner

    My nephew had been out of the country when I finally landed an agent earlier this year. Apparently, some equate getting an agent equals getting a book deal all in one. So this summer, on my facebook he writes, “I’m going to be back in the states, where can I get a copy of your book? I would love to read it.”

    Ummm. I haven’t sold it yet. My agent is shopping it.

    “Bummer”

    LOL! true story.

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