Since I’m in revision mode, friends, I’m bringing back an oldie (but a goodie). Thank you for extending grace. Enjoy! *** It happened again. It’s not something I like to talk about because I’m the kind of gal who doesn’t like to hurt folks’ feelings. But here’s the truth: Sometimes, kind people—gals, guys, writers, bakers, and candlestick makers—get used. And not in a …