Writers plot. We create. We craft stories in many genres. We show characters at their best, and even love ’em at their worst.
Sometimes, our tales may take a different tack–a more exciting twist– than what we’d originally intended. It can be an intense thing when this happens because, often, it’s during these spine-tingling times when we realize what’s happening is out of our control. For writers of Christian fiction, we recognize these moments as a “God thing.”
What happens, however, when writers are not in tune to the Holy Spirit’s prompting? When a season of doldrums seems to take hold that one cannot shake?
Recently, someone asked me about that very thing–about writing and negativity. Since I’m a fairly positive, upbeat kind of person, my mind doesn’t wander there too often, but here are some things I thought I might offer:
- Understand that negativism isn’t from God. That’s a mindset that the enemy uses to entrap us with. When we’re tired, physically ill, emotionally exhausted, or dealing with disappointment, that’s when we’re most vulnerable. Thoughts become distorted; logic is replaced with fear. Fear creates panic. Panic erodes into misplaced resentment. Before long, as odd as it sounds, that becomes a new comfort zone.
- Realize that self-worth isn’t determined by others’ words. Easier said than done because, sure, those rejections sting. Most writers will admit that they’ve had their fair share and they’re not pleasant. Use those rejections, however, as stepping-stones, not stumbling blocks. Don’t ever let them make you bitter–learn from them, heed the advice, but realize, too, that writing is a subjective business. Don’t let sour thoughts overtake you or your writing.
- Envision success. During my writing journey, I’ve developed specific tools in helping me reach my goals, one of which is to actually visualize what it is I’m wishing to obtain. In my mind, I see my goal and I literally walk myself through the process of achieving it. I know which clothing I have on, the colors I’m wearing, and even who the people are I might be interacting with.
Once we understand that 
the finished products (our manuscripts) are actually byproducts of our own thought processes, we can learn to channel those thoughts and negative influences into something spectacular!
Stay focused (and positive) by:
- Journaling. Jot down goals, hopes, dreams and what specific things you’re going to do to reach new heights.
- Reaffirmations. Dive into God’s word daily. Let Him speak to you–seek His will for your life. Not to be too preachy here, but there are literally hundreds of Bible verses that tell us how special we are.
- Exercising. Even if it’s just taking a walk around your own house, that’s a good start. We feel better mentally and physically when our bodies are active.
- Giving God the glory for the new work He is creating in you! You may not see it, feel it, or really believe it while it’s happening, but that’s how it is as gold’s being refined. It’s all about the process.
Discouragement every now and again is normal. A constant stream of negativity, though, is counter-productive to our goals.
As writers, if we’re serious about our craft, then we best be donning our chefs’ hats and preparing for our kitchens to get a whole lot hotter. The bread won’t get done if we don’t bake it first.
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How do you stay positive? What choices are you being intentional about where your writing is concerned?
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Staying positive is a must, in writing and in life. If we walk around in
defeated mental states, how will we make an impact for the Kingdom
of God? Jesus is our hope and our Salvation, our Refuge, Strength,
and our “Shepherd, to lead, guide, and shield us.” (Psalm 23:1) What
more do we need? If God cares enough to feed the birds of the air, how
much more will He provide for us? (Matt 6:26) Also we sees things only
in part. God sees the whole picture of our lives and has everything under
control. We need only to trust Him. 🙂
Author
Such positive thoughts, Tanya!
And staying positive doesn’t mean that sometimes we won’t have off days, sad times, or difficult seasons because, sadly, that’s just a part of life in this old world. I think to shift from a negative mindset, though, we have to be intentional about it and hone in on those good things in our lives…God, our families, friends, careers, etc. Previous choices and poor attitudes have no control over our lives unless we give them permission.
Ahhhh…I’ve been down lately about my writing, and these are such encouraging words, from you and Tanya. I really appreciate them.
I was reading my older son’s memory verse with him yesterday – Genesis 6:8 & 22, and it really spoke to me. (8) “But Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord.” (22) “Thus did Noah; according to all that God commanded him, so did he.” God directed me to write my WIP, and I want to be faithful to my faithful God with what He called me to do.
Thank you for this post today, Cynthia. I needed it, and needed the reminder that all I need is found in Christ.
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Sweet Kerry, you are such a blessing…and we all need those gentle reminders from time to time.
And no, no, no. Absolutely not. You will not “be down” about your writing. You’re a talented, spirit-filled child of the King whose words encourage others on a daily basis! 🙂
Thank you, Cynthia.
Staying positive can be a challenge at times. When I get down about my writing, I’ll take a walk. Being outdoors with the sun on my face and fresh air in my lungs can clear my head, give me new insights, and help me return to my WIP with renewed enthusiasm.
Author
A change in location and absorbing a new atmosphere can indeed give us a new perspective!
Keli, you’re such an inspiration!
Great tips on negativitiy and how to stay focused..
I stay positive by trusting God.
Author
Loree, I hope to meet you one day in person! I always envision you as you are on your blog–so lovely, dressed in your period costume with those creative wheels turning.
Like Like Like! Giving God the glory is really the key, it’s by His grace that we have any words to use at all. Great post, thank you!
Author
Yes, Monique, we never want to forget that He’s the one that deserves the greatest praise.
Thanks so much for stopping by!
I agree with Keli, there’s nothing like a walk outdoors to get that creativity flowing. I need some tonight, but think it might be too dark to get inspired! 🙂
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Yes, Patti, walking moves our thoughts, as well as our bodies. 🙂