Writers plot. We create. We craft stories in many genres. We show characters at their best, and even love ’em at their worst.
Sometimes, our tales may take a different tack–a more exciting twist– than what we’d originally intended. It can be an intense thing when this happens because, often, it’s during these spine-tingling times when we realize what’s happening is beyond our control. For writers of Christian fiction, we recognize these moments as a “God thing.”
What happens, however, when writers are not in tune to the Holy Spirit’s prompting? When a season of doldrums seems to take hold that one cannot shake?
Recently, someone asked me about that very thing–about writing and negativity. Since I’m usually a positive, upbeat kind of person, my mind doesn’t wander there too often, but here are some things I thought I might offer:
- Understand that negativism isn’t from God. That’s a mindset that the enemy uses to entrap us. When we’re tired, physically ill, emotionally exhausted, or dealing with disappointment, that’s when we’re most vulnerable. Thoughts become distorted; logic is replaced with fear. Fear creates panic. Panic erodes into misplaced resentment. Before long, as odd as it sounds, that becomes a new comfort zone.
- Realize that self-worth isn’t determined by others’ words. Easier said than done because, sure, those rejections sting. Most writers will admit that they’ve had their fair share and they’re not pleasant. Use those rejections, however, as stepping-stones, not stumbling blocks. Don’t ever let them make you bitter–learn from them, heed the advice, but realize, too, that writing is a subjective business. Don’t let sour thoughts overtake you or your writing.
- Envision success. During my writing journey, I’ve developed specific tools in helping me reach my goals, one of which is to actually visualize what it is I’m wishing to obtain. In my mind, I see my goal and I literally walk myself through the process of achieving it. I know which clothing I have on, the colors I’m wearing, and even who the people are I might be interacting with.
Once we understand that the finished products (our manuscripts) are actually byproducts of our own thought processes, we can learn to channel those thoughts and negative influences into something spectacular!
Stay focused (and positive) by:
- Journaling. Jot down goals, hopes, dreams and what specific things you’re going to do to reach new heights.
- Reaffirmations. Dive into God’s word daily. Let Him speak to you–seek His will for your life. There are literally hundreds of Bible verses that tell us how special we are.
- Exercising. Even if it’s just taking a walk around your own house, that’s a good start. We feel better mentally and physically when our bodies are active.
- Giving God the glory for the new work He is creating in you! You may not see it, feel it, or really believe it while it’s happening, but that’s how it is as gold’s being refined. It’s all about the process.
Discouragement every now and then is normal. A constant stream of negativity, though, is counter-productive to our goals.
Discard doubt and enjoy the picnic!
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What are your encouragement tips?
Note: This was a previous post from last year. I pray it blessed you today!
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I started a daily workout regimen a few months ago and find it helps in many ways. I have more energy and am better equipped to deal with the stresses inherent in being a writer. My outlook is generally brighter, too.
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Exercise is such a natural mood enhancer isn’t it, Keli? As I write, I find I must make a conscious effort to get up and move. During the creative process and when we’re on a writing roll, daily workouts take focus and determination. Good for you!
I love your heart in this post.
I also love your point about how when we are tired or physically ill, etc…we are vulnerable. I dealt with demons for many years – self doubt from when I was a child, and panic later on. God was with me every step of the way as I walked through some very dark valleys.
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Loree, I love how Jesus sees us through the valleys while preparing us for victory! You inspire me.
These are some great tips! I know when I’m digging in the Word consistently I feel so much better!
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Jess, isn’t that the truth! I like how the Lord reveals a fresh word to us in passages of scripture that we may have read many times over. Truly Holy Spirit ordained.
The devotionals on your blog are fantastic and you continue to recharge me!
Much-needed post Cynthia! Thank you for sharing. I try to do 3 of the 4 items on your list, except journaling. I do have one, but it’s neglected in my nightstand. I’ll have to give it a try again. 🙂
A friend posted this quote the other day on FB and I really appreciate it.
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” ~ Theodore Roosevelt.
Thankful for your reminder that we’re vessels through which the Holy Spirit works, and our talent is for His glory.
I so appreciate the way you use the talent He gave you. 🙂
Hugs!
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Kerry, I love the quote by Theodore Roosevelt! So true!
I’m blessed every time I visit your site and read the words that the Holy Spirit imparts to you. Your heart for Jesus shines.
Those are good habits to incorporate into one’s life, no matter what the occupation may be.