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For the past ten days, our family’s traveled a new road.
It’s a road not willingly chosen—a surreal detour laden with sorrow and a curious twinge of thankfulness, too.
While we grieve the sudden passing of my father-in-law, we’re thankful Dad’s transition to Heaven was not prolonged or marked by a season of suffering. (If you missed last week’s post, you can read more here.)
I’ve found the grief comes in waves—some subtle and more like soft laps upon the seashore, and still others—strong and unyielding with the power to upend.
For my mother-in-law life is forever changed. Family will one day go home, and eventually, the house will grow silent. I suspect the days will be easier than the nights. Having never lost a spouse, I can only imagine the burden she faces. (And as you’re probably aware, stages of grief are common.)
I think the key in navigating this or any significant life change is having a strong support system. I know family and friends are a great source of strength to my mother-in-law just now, and already, countless people have blessed her in multiple ways.
Within hours of hearing the news, folks rallied. As they stopped by the house to offer their condolences, they brought pies, cakes, lasagnas, meat and cheese trays, casseroles, brisket, veggie platters, and so much more.
Aunt Linda organized and grocery shopped.
Another dear Linda planned the meal following the funeral.
Mary washed dishes and cleaned the kitchen.
One dear soul called a repairman when the air conditioner malfunctioned—in 90 degree weather.
Loved ones installed a flag pole in honor of my father-in-law who proudly served this great nation for 20+ years.
Siblings loved on their mama in kind and quiet ways.
At Dad’s funeral, Larry delivered a message of hope.
Kimberly sang “The Lord’s Prayer.”
The National Guard and community honored their humble servant with full military honors.
A poignant moment as my mother-in-law accepts the American flag in honor of my FIL’s military service.
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I guess I can share a story. It might make you smile.
When my father died, there was a church service and then the ‘home visit’. I had a friend – a rather flaky young woman – who offered to keep the dogs (four BIG ones) quiet in a back bedroom.
Well…she decided to step out to get a bit of food, and literally forgot that the dogs were there.
Picture it – a houseful of European types, dressed in black, murmuring in low tones, and suddenly an anguished cry of “Oh, s***, they’re LOOSE!”
Followed by what can only be described as bedlam. People screaming, dogs barking, glasses dropping, dogs standing on the tables dining, and finally a canine rush through the front door and out into the cul-de-sac.
I gave the ‘home visit’ because it was expected, and I loved the way it turned out.
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Andrew, good to see you this morning. And thanks for the levity. (It did make me smile.)